This is your life, and it’s ending one minute at a time.
Is it going to play out like a ball of yarn unwinding on its own, moving with rapid and random momentum?
Or, will you grab the ball of yarn, and with two hands, unwind the ball with conscious choice?
I’m not saying you can “control” life. It’s messy.
You can, though, steer and aim.
But you need to focus your mind.
(And now is better than soon).